Not sure which lubricant to start with, there are so many personal lubricants to choose from. Using lubricants is nothing to feel shameful about—it can be a great addition to your sexual experience.
Water-based lube is your safest bet to start with. It can be used for all of your sexual needs: penetrative sex, masturbation, and sex toy play. Water-based lubes are also ideal for people with sensitive skin or vaginal irritation, and can be used with condoms and sex toys
Silicone-based lube is slippery, long lasting, and is ideal for a longer session . It requires less lube to be applied, and needs reapplication less often. Silicone-based lubes are also great for shower sex or masturbation in the shower, as they don’t wash away so easily. Silicone-based lubricants should not be used with silicone-based sex toys, as they can break down the rubber over time.
Oil-based lube also provides a slippery feel that lasts longer than water-based lube. These lubes are ideal for masturbation (hands or toys), penetrative unprotected sex, and water-play. Oil-based lubes can also be used for a sensual massage. Not to used with latex condoms